Jul. 01, 2025

Currents

Jun. 24, 2025

Doubt’s Never Ending Meeting

Jun. 17, 2025

Not the Enemy

Jun. 10, 2025

Leaving the “Fire”

Jun. 03, 2025

Facing the Storm

May. 27, 2025

Acceptance is Not Complacency

Aug. 20, 2024

I am Thinking…

Jul. 30, 2024

Eliminating Thoughts

Jul. 23, 2024

Car Alarms

Jul. 02, 2024

Helpful Worry vs Unhelpful Worry

Jun. 25, 2024

Storytelling

Jun. 18, 2024

Approach

May. 28, 2024

What Is

May. 21, 2024

YouTube Feed

Mar. 12, 2024

Welcoming Anxiety

Mar. 05, 2024

Overthinking

Feb. 27, 2024

Outcome Focused

Feb. 20, 2024

Beliefs About Thoughts

Feb. 13, 2024

Worry vs Planning

Feb. 08, 2024

Growth & Perfection

Jan. 30, 2024

Anticipatory Anxiety & Decisions

Jan. 23, 2024

Self-Care

Jan. 16, 2024

Core Fears

Jan. 09, 2024

Psychological Flexibility

Jan. 04, 2024

Intentions

Dec. 12, 2023

Beliefs About Worry

Nov. 21, 2023

Unhelpful Assumptions

Nov. 14, 2023

Selective Attention

Nov. 07, 2023

Anxiety vs Suffering

Nov. 02, 2023

Thought-Action Fusion

Oct. 23, 2023

Imperfect Friend

Oct. 17, 2023

Automatic Thoughts

Oct. 10, 2023

The Anxiety Cycle

Oct. 03, 2023

Process Over Outcome

Sep. 29, 2023

Mental Reps

Sep. 26, 2023

Productive vs Unproductive Worry

Aug. 22, 2023

Perfectionism to Self-Compassion

Aug. 15, 2023

“Just Think Positive”

Aug. 08, 2023

Slow is Smooth, Smooth is Fast

Aug. 01, 2023

Externalize Anxiety

Jul. 25, 2023

Perfecting Anxiety

Jul. 18, 2023

Thought Defusion

Jul. 11, 2023

Acceptance vs White Knuckling it

Jul. 04, 2023

Shifting to the Present and the External

Jun. 27, 2023

Keeping Anxiety on its Leash

Jun. 20, 2023

Intrusive Thoughts

Jun. 13, 2023

Safety Behaviors

May. 16, 2023

Rumination is Active

May. 09, 2023

Reassurance Seeking

May. 02, 2023

Challenging Thoughts Too Much

Apr. 18, 2023

Out of Control

Apr. 11, 2023

Catastrophizing

Mar. 07, 2023

Insight and Anxiety

Feb. 28, 2023

Anxiety is Normal

Feb. 21, 2023

Short-Term Comfort

Feb. 14, 2023

Anxiety Loves to Stay Vague

Feb. 07, 2023

No Fear

Jan. 27, 2023

The Child Brain, The Parent Brain, & The Grandparent Brain


Productive vs Unproductive Worry

Signs of productive worry: It addresses something likely or foreseeable The worry leads to action and planning The worry has an end It accepts a reasonable amount of uncertainty Examples of productive worry: “What if I don’t have enough money to retire?” –> “Maybe I should meet with a financial planner and work up a realistic plan” –> Action: Call friends, search the Internet for recommendations of a financial planner, and book an appointment. “What if I get sick on my trip overseas?” –> Action: researches health advisories for the destination, takes reasonable precautions according to recommendations, and purchases travel insurance. Signs of unproductive worry: It addresses something possible, but very unlikely It’s after 100% certainty and does not accept any level of uncertainty The worry is circular The question is unanswerable Examples of unproductive worry: “What if I don’t have enough money to retire?” –> “I’ll have to work the rest of my life” –> “What if I have health issues, don’t have enough money, and can’t find work?” –> “What if all my family and friends are gone? I’ll be all alone.” –> Worry continues with all types of possibilities and worst-case scenarios. “What if I get sick on my trip overseas?” –> “I’ll contract a rare and deadly disease.” –> “What if there’s no effective treatment available there?” –> “What if I can’t communicate with local healthcare professionals?” –> “What if I’m stranded there and unable to return home?” –> “What if my illness is contagious, and I infect everyone around me?” –> “What if I never recover, and my life is ruined?”

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Productive vs Unproductive Worry

Signs of productive worry: It addresses something likely or foreseeable The worry leads to action and planning The worry has an end It accepts a reasonable amount of uncertainty Examples of productive worry: “What if I don’t have enough money to retire?” –> “Maybe I should meet with a financial planner and work up a realistic plan” –> Action: Call friends, search the Internet for recommendations of a financial planner, and book an appointment. “What if I get sick on my trip overseas?” –> Action: researches health advisories for the destination, takes reasonable precautions according to recommendations, and purchases travel insurance. Signs of unproductive worry: It addresses something possible, but very unlikely It’s after 100% certainty and does not accept any level of uncertainty The worry is circular The question is unanswerable Examples of unproductive worry: “What if I don’t have enough money to retire?” –> “I’ll have to work the rest of my life” –> “What if I have health issues, don’t have enough money, and can’t find work?” –> “What if all my family and friends are gone? I’ll be all alone.” –> Worry continues with all types of possibilities and worst-case scenarios. “What if I get sick on my trip overseas?” –> “I’ll contract a rare and deadly disease.” –> “What if there’s no effective treatment available there?” –> “What if I can’t communicate with local healthcare professionals?” –> “What if I’m stranded there and unable to return home?” –> “What if my illness is contagious, and I infect everyone around me?” –> “What if I never recover, and my life is ruined?”

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Jul. 01, 2025

Currents

Jun. 24, 2025

Doubt’s Never Ending Meeting

Jun. 17, 2025

Not the Enemy

Jun. 10, 2025

Leaving the “Fire”

Jun. 03, 2025

Facing the Storm

May. 27, 2025

Acceptance is Not Complacency

Aug. 20, 2024

I am Thinking…

Jul. 30, 2024

Eliminating Thoughts

Jul. 23, 2024

Car Alarms

Jul. 02, 2024

Helpful Worry vs Unhelpful Worry

Jun. 25, 2024

Storytelling

Jun. 18, 2024

Approach

May. 28, 2024

What Is

May. 21, 2024

YouTube Feed

Mar. 12, 2024

Welcoming Anxiety

Mar. 05, 2024

Overthinking

Feb. 27, 2024

Outcome Focused

Feb. 20, 2024

Beliefs About Thoughts

Feb. 13, 2024

Worry vs Planning

Feb. 08, 2024

Growth & Perfection

Jan. 30, 2024

Anticipatory Anxiety & Decisions

Jan. 23, 2024

Self-Care

Jan. 16, 2024

Core Fears

Jan. 09, 2024

Psychological Flexibility

Jan. 04, 2024

Intentions

Dec. 12, 2023

Beliefs About Worry

Nov. 21, 2023

Unhelpful Assumptions

Nov. 14, 2023

Selective Attention

Nov. 07, 2023

Anxiety vs Suffering

Nov. 02, 2023

Thought-Action Fusion

Oct. 23, 2023

Imperfect Friend

Oct. 17, 2023

Automatic Thoughts

Oct. 10, 2023

The Anxiety Cycle

Oct. 03, 2023

Process Over Outcome

Sep. 29, 2023

Mental Reps

Sep. 26, 2023

Productive vs Unproductive Worry

Aug. 22, 2023

Perfectionism to Self-Compassion

Aug. 15, 2023

“Just Think Positive”

Aug. 08, 2023

Slow is Smooth, Smooth is Fast

Aug. 01, 2023

Externalize Anxiety

Jul. 25, 2023

Perfecting Anxiety

Jul. 18, 2023

Thought Defusion

Jul. 11, 2023

Acceptance vs White Knuckling it

Jul. 04, 2023

Shifting to the Present and the External

Jun. 27, 2023

Keeping Anxiety on its Leash

Jun. 20, 2023

Intrusive Thoughts

Jun. 13, 2023

Safety Behaviors

May. 16, 2023

Rumination is Active

May. 09, 2023

Reassurance Seeking

May. 02, 2023

Challenging Thoughts Too Much

Apr. 18, 2023

Out of Control

Apr. 11, 2023

Catastrophizing

Mar. 07, 2023

Insight and Anxiety

Feb. 28, 2023

Anxiety is Normal

Feb. 21, 2023

Short-Term Comfort

Feb. 14, 2023

Anxiety Loves to Stay Vague

Feb. 07, 2023

No Fear

Jan. 27, 2023

The Child Brain, The Parent Brain, & The Grandparent Brain