Leaving the “Fire”
Facing the Storm
Acceptance is Not Complacency
I am Thinking…
Eliminating Thoughts
Car Alarms
Helpful Worry vs Unhelpful Worry
Storytelling
Approach
What Is
YouTube Feed
Welcoming Anxiety
Overthinking
Outcome Focused
Beliefs About Thoughts
Worry vs Planning
Growth & Perfection
Anticipatory Anxiety & Decisions
Self-Care
Core Fears
Psychological Flexibility
Intentions
Beliefs About Worry
Unhelpful Assumptions
Selective Attention
Anxiety vs Suffering
Thought-Action Fusion
Imperfect Friend
Automatic Thoughts
The Anxiety Cycle
Process Over Outcome
Mental Reps
Productive vs Unproductive Worry
Perfectionism to Self-Compassion
“Just Think Positive”
Slow is Smooth, Smooth is Fast
Externalize Anxiety
Perfecting Anxiety
Thought Defusion
Acceptance vs White Knuckling it
Shifting to the Present and the External
Keeping Anxiety on its Leash
Intrusive Thoughts
Safety Behaviors
Rumination is Active
Reassurance Seeking
Challenging Thoughts Too Much
Out of Control
Catastrophizing
Insight and Anxiety
Anxiety is Normal
Short-Term Comfort
Anxiety Loves to Stay Vague
No Fear
The Child Brain, The Parent Brain, & The Grandparent Brain
Productive vs Unproductive Worry
Signs of productive worry: It addresses something likely or foreseeable The worry leads to action and planning The worry has an end It accepts a reasonable amount of uncertainty Examples of productive worry: “What if I don’t have enough money to retire?” –> “Maybe I should meet with a financial planner and work up a realistic plan” –> Action: Call friends, search the Internet for recommendations of a financial planner, and book an appointment. “What if I get sick on my trip overseas?” –> Action: researches health advisories for the destination, takes reasonable precautions according to recommendations, and purchases travel insurance. Signs of unproductive worry: It addresses something possible, but very unlikely It’s after 100% certainty and does not accept any level of uncertainty The worry is circular The question is unanswerable Examples of unproductive worry: “What if I don’t have enough money to retire?” –> “I’ll have to work the rest of my life” –> “What if I have health issues, don’t have enough money, and can’t find work?” –> “What if all my family and friends are gone? I’ll be all alone.” –> Worry continues with all types of possibilities and worst-case scenarios. “What if I get sick on my trip overseas?” –> “I’ll contract a rare and deadly disease.” –> “What if there’s no effective treatment available there?” –> “What if I can’t communicate with local healthcare professionals?” –> “What if I’m stranded there and unable to return home?” –> “What if my illness is contagious, and I infect everyone around me?” –> “What if I never recover, and my life is ruined?”
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Productive vs Unproductive Worry
Signs of productive worry: It addresses something likely or foreseeable The worry leads to action and planning The worry has an end It accepts a reasonable amount of uncertainty Examples of productive worry: “What if I don’t have enough money to retire?” –> “Maybe I should meet with a financial planner and work up a realistic plan” –> Action: Call friends, search the Internet for recommendations of a financial planner, and book an appointment. “What if I get sick on my trip overseas?” –> Action: researches health advisories for the destination, takes reasonable precautions according to recommendations, and purchases travel insurance. Signs of unproductive worry: It addresses something possible, but very unlikely It’s after 100% certainty and does not accept any level of uncertainty The worry is circular The question is unanswerable Examples of unproductive worry: “What if I don’t have enough money to retire?” –> “I’ll have to work the rest of my life” –> “What if I have health issues, don’t have enough money, and can’t find work?” –> “What if all my family and friends are gone? I’ll be all alone.” –> Worry continues with all types of possibilities and worst-case scenarios. “What if I get sick on my trip overseas?” –> “I’ll contract a rare and deadly disease.” –> “What if there’s no effective treatment available there?” –> “What if I can’t communicate with local healthcare professionals?” –> “What if I’m stranded there and unable to return home?” –> “What if my illness is contagious, and I infect everyone around me?” –> “What if I never recover, and my life is ruined?”
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