Mental Reps
Perfectionism to Self-Compassion
“Just Think Positive”
Slow is Smooth, Smooth is Fast
Externalize Anxiety
Perfecting Anxiety
Thought Defusion
Acceptance vs White Knuckling it
Shifting to the Present and the External
Keeping Anxiety on its Leash
Intrusive Thoughts
Safety Behaviors
Rumination is Active
Reassurance Seeking
Challenging Thoughts Too Much
Out of Control
Catastrophizing
Insight and Anxiety
Anxiety is Normal
Short-Term Comfort
Anxiety Loves to Stay Vague
No Fear
The Child Brain, The Parent Brain, & The Grandparent Brain
Shifting to the Present and the External
Overfocusing on the future and on your internal state (thoughts and feelings) is the perfect recipe for anxiety. Doing the opposite by shifting your focus to the present and external, can be a helpful exercise to practice.
One exercise is called 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding:
5. Focus on five things you see around you
4. Focus on four things you can touch
3. Focus on three things you can hear
2. Focus on two things you can smell
1. Focus on one thing you can taste
These types of activities are never quick fixes. Changing our attitude and response to anxiety is the ultimate “fix.” Instead of using this as an attempt to get out of an anxious state quickly, it’s often more helpful to experiment engaging in it with the attitude of: “I’m going to do this exercise while anxiety does its thing and runs its course.”
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Weekly thoughts on anxiety + articles/video updates
Shifting to the Present and the External
Overfocusing on the future and on your internal state (thoughts and feelings) is the perfect recipe for anxiety. Doing the opposite by shifting your focus to the present and external, can be a helpful exercise to practice.
One exercise is called 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding:
5. Focus on five things you see around you
4. Focus on four things you can touch
3. Focus on three things you can hear
2. Focus on two things you can smell
1. Focus on one thing you can taste
These types of activities are never quick fixes. Changing our attitude and response to anxiety is the ultimate “fix.” Instead of using this as an attempt to get out of an anxious state quickly, it’s often more helpful to experiment engaging in it with the attitude of: “I’m going to do this exercise while anxiety does its thing and runs its course.”
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Weekly thoughts on anxiety + articles/video updates